Don't call me Grandma

Vaunda Micheaux Nelson

Book - 2016

A granddaughter recounts the reasons why her grandmother is hard to love--and why she loves her anyway.

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Picture books
Published
Minneapolis : Carolrhoda Books [2016]
Language
English
Main Author
Vaunda Micheaux Nelson (author)
Other Authors
Elizabeth Zunon (illustrator)
Physical Description
1 volume (unpaged) : illustrations (chiefly color) ; 29 cm
ISBN
9781467742085
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Review by Booklist Review

It's easy (and not uncommon) to write books about fun grandmothers who bake cookies or read stories. Introducing a sharp-tongued, disagreeable grandmother is more difficult. But Nelson pulls it off. Great-grandmother Nell is described by the narrator as scary. She's vain, growls, and calls the girl my pretty, like the witch in The Wizard of Oz, while yanking her ear. She's other things, too, though: a woman who has a bedroom that smells like flowers and has a ballerina doll on her bed, and she drinks from a glass with a spider on it because she has a broken heart. She also dabs lipstick on the girl and tells stories about her life. Illustrator Zunon cleverly alters her art throughout, portraying a steely woman of today and then using hazy watercolors and collage art to show events of the past, including church picnics and civil rights moments. By book's end, perceptive readers will see this 96-year-old as a multilayered woman who has experienced joy and tears and is loved by a great-granddaughter who embraces her complexity.--Cooper, Ilene Copyright 2016 Booklist

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Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Not all grandmas are cuddly and sweet-Nelson's unnamed narrator thinks that her African-American great-grandmother, Nell, can be "scary" and "stern." But despite Nell's disgruntled expressions and chilly demeanor, her great-granddaughter has abundant fascination and tenderness for her glamorous relative, who shows her how to apply lipstick and even lets her taste the mysterious brown liquid she sips from a tumbler all day ("Heart medicine," Nells tells her. "Broken heart"). Nell's personality shines through Zunon's (Poems in the Attic) collage work; an assemblage of civil rights-era photographs and other mementos provide insight into Nell's past, while abstracted watercolor images depict her distant memories. Nelson (The Book Itch) sensitively conveys the complexity of intergenerational relationships while celebrating a grandmother whose individuality hasn't diminished one iota over the years. Ages 4-8. Author's agent: Tracey Adams, Adams Literary. Illustrator's agent: Lori Nowicki, Painted Words. (Feb.) © Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.

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Review by School Library Journal Review

Gr 1-3-Great-grandmother Nell is 96 and prickly, and her great-granddaughter admires her very much. Little by little, the girl learns bits and snatches about her great-grandmother's life, including one of the things that caused her broken heart: when Nell's best friend told her they couldn't be friends anymore because of her brown skin. Nelson weaves tension into the text as the little girl wants desperately to have the attention of her great-grandmother, but the elderly lady just isn't one for giving out affection. The eccentric nonagenarian eats fish for breakfast, wears pearls everywhere, and takes sips of an amber liquid that are so tiny that one glass lasts all day. The story's perspective is from the child, who finds her great-grandmother "scary" but also intriguing, outspoken, and glamorous. Zunon's lively, colorful illustrations balance the serious tone of the text with warmth and saturation. The two characters may seem very different, but Zunon gives each the same birthmark on her right cheek, indicating they may not be so different after all. VERDICT An appealing intergenerational story.-Jennifer Steib Simmons, Anderson County Library, SC © Copyright 2016. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.

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Review by Horn Book Review

Ninety-six-year-old great-grandmother, Nell, doesnt answer to Grandma. She doesnt do hugs and kisses. She growls her disapproval at her great-granddaughter, who narrates this book. But belying Nells starchy exterior is the sumptuous appearance of her bedroom: its a perfumed sanctuary with a ballerina doll and a lavishly appointed vanity whose prettifying contents intoxicate the narrator. Nelson seems at first to be offering a character study, but it becomes something more when Nell shares with her great-granddaughter her memories of nickel Hershey bars, a church-picnic blue ribbon, and the time her best friend said they couldnt be friends anymore because of her brown skinthe first time her heart was broken. This intergenerational exchange prompts a sort of laying on of handsgreat-granddaughters on great-grandmothers. The scene yields to a wordless and illuminating double-page spread that further reveals Nells story: its devoted to black-and-white photos of mid-twentieth-century civil rights activism, I Voted buttons, and other souvenirs of a life both severely tested and richly lived. Though she twice describes Nell as scary, by books end the narrator has come to better understand her great-grandmother, admitting, I like her that way. Zunons illustrations, with their vintage motifs, textured backdrops, and layered-looking set pieces, create a stage for the queenly central character. nell beram (c) Copyright 2016. The Horn Book, Inc., a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

Scary grandmas are always called "grandMOTHER," especially if they are 96-year-old great-grandmothers who have "chocolaty brown" skin and are named Nell and sometimes growl into their mirrors. This little girl's great-grandmother is glamorous and has wigs, earrings, and "bottles and bottles and bottles of perfume." Nelson's young protagonist is mesmerized by her great-grandmother's rituals, from posing in her bathing suit on the beach to applying ruby red lipstick. Even though her great-grandmother is old, the young girl knows she is "not worn out." Nell, who never hugs or kisses, still deigns to share beauty tips and stories of long ago. Zunon's mixed-media illustrations of paper collage, pastel, and watercolor lend warmth to this tender story of an aging dragon of a diva and her great-grandchild. The facial expressions span the emotional gamut from pique to sorrow to haughtiness and are all spot-on. When Nell reminisces, vague watercolor impressions evoke the perfect tone of wistfulness. Black-and-white photo reproductions accompany brief recollections of the civil rights movement. But the sterling moment shines at the very end of the story when the grandchild steals a kiss with no remorse. "Even asleep, Great-Grandmother Nell is scary. But I like her that way. I give her a little hug. She smells like peaches. I kiss my grandma. // She won't know." Children will best appreciate this nostalgic journey when accompanied by a doting loved one. (Picture book. 5-8) Copyright Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

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